Shame Release Ritual • Reclamation • Truth

The Shame Ritual

Releasing the Words That Never Belonged to You
A Shadowborn Ceremony of Reclamation

You Were Never the Names They Gave You

You are not too much, too loud, too dirty, too broken.

This box holds the tools to strip those words from your skin — and return to the truth that was always yours.

This is ritual. This is reclamation. This is your moment to unmark what was never meant to stay.

From the mirror to the marker to the cleansing cloth — every item is part of the process.

Shadowborn Ceremony Box

Ritual Tools

  • • Black skin-safe marker for writing shame words directly on your skin
  • • Hand mirror for the witnessing ritual
  • • Black ritual candle for fire as release and transformation
  • • Burn bowl for the shame slips ritual
  • • Cleansing cloth to wash off the words after ritual

Sacred Materials

  • • Shame slips (x10) - printed paper slips to burn or destroy
  • • Mini envelope for your declaration or symbolic ash
  • • Obsidian crystal in velvet bag to absorb and protect
  • • Black ribbon to wear post-ritual as a symbol of release
  • • Declaration card for your new truth

Integration & Guidance

  • • A5 plain journal/sketchbook for mapping shame and post-ritual journaling
  • • Printed ritual guide with full instructions and affirmations
  • • Full tarot/oracle reading personal to your journey
  • • Sacred wrapping with tissue, label, and symbolism
  • • Optional invitation to live Zoom ritual

The Ceremony Process

Step 1: Witness yourself in the mirror

Step 2: Write the shame words on your skin

Step 3: Burn the paper slips of inherited shame

Step 4: Cleanse the words from your body

Step 5: Declare your truth and seal with the ribbon

Investment: £77

This is an investment in reclaiming your truth. In stripping away what was never yours to carry.

Includes everything you need to carry out a guided fire ceremony of release — every item chosen with sacred intention, plus a full tarot/oracle reading personal to your journey.

Ready to Unmark What Was Never Meant to Stay?

Your skin remembers every word. It's time to give it new ones.

Begin Reclamation

Sacred Container

  • • This is deep work - ensure you have support available
  • • All materials are chosen for safety and intention
  • • Optional live Zoom ceremony for those who want community
  • • This ritual is for releasing inherited shame, not self-harm
  • • Follow all safety guidelines included in the ritual guide

You were never the names they gave you. This ritual helps you remember.